How to say that there is another?
It's always difficult to part. It is more difficult to do this, if earlier there were close relations, if people loved each other. How to say that there is another, how less painful for the former beloved to open up the stern truth and say that you do not love her anymore? Agree, this is difficult, but necessary. It is better to put all the points above and, tell the truth, than for a while to live in a lie. Moreover, the truth will be revealed in any case.
How to competently part
- It's best to go out and talk with the girl. Yes, it's difficult, yes, it can cause an unpredictable reaction on her part, perhaps even hysterics, accusations, tears. But this must be done. After all, there is no more love and it becomes more difficult to pretend every day. This method is the most painful, but also the most decent, because a direct conversation always indicates respect for the girl who was so expensive.
- There is a less painful way: Try to gradually stop the relationship: do not come on a date, do not answer the call. It seems that it's easier. But, on the other hand, it is ugly in relation to the former beloved, it humiliates her. After all, there is nothing more terrible than the unknown. Men who thus stop the relationship, admit that they have another, pretty tormented a woman with silence, think primarily about themselves. Maybe, you do not need to regret the termination of relations with them?
- Finally, a number of men simply prefer not togo to a serious conversation. They just disappear from the life of a woman. This is their way of recognizing that everything has passed. Once everything is in the past, why explain anything at all? Cruel, selfish, ugly. A question may arise: was there any love at all, were not these just beautiful words about her?
"Separation is a small death," is sung in onefamous song. A man should remain a man and in moments of farewell to a girl, make this process less painful for her. After all, she must learn to live without a loved one and wait for someone who does not betray.