How to know your man?
How to understand that a person suits you
Among the many familiar faces and a string of randommeetings, you can easily miss your chance to find a soul mate. But how to recognize your person and not overlook him? Everyone in the subconscious is drawn an ideal partner. We sometimes can not even realize that we are looking for someone who looks like a dream. Unfortunately, in reality it is rather difficult to meet someone who will fully meet all our requirements and wishes. Yes, it is not necessary. The most important thing in a relationship is respect, understanding, willingness to support in a difficult moment and, of course, disinterested and bright love.
Sometimes it is enough to spend a fewdays to realize that I met a faithful companion for life. Sometimes it takes years to realize this. However, there are several important signs that may indicate that you have met your person.
- Respect for each other. If a person is always ready to listen to you, whatever you say, gratefully perceives your desire to share with him cares or joys, does not interrupt and does not try to impose your story, ignoring you - all this speaks for respect. Respect is a solid foundation for building further relationships. If at an early stage of meetings or friendship it is present between people, there is a possibility that such relations will grow into something big.
- Personal qualities. At every age and at certain points in life, we may like different qualities in people. After watching the films about love, we begin to appreciate the refinement, gallantry and romance, and in a few weeks are ready to fall in love with the energetic neposide and the rebel. You should not take fleeting passions for the truth. Behind the illusion lies the real features that we value in people. If it is difficult to recognize them in a person, you can simplify your task by writing in a row those qualities that you might theoretically like in a partner, and then gradually eliminate what seems insignificant.
- Common values. Do not confuse values with hobbies, these are completely different things. Hobbies just the partners may not coincide. Everyone has the right to have a personal space to realize their potential and have hobbies. If partners have different interests, this is not a reason for quarrels or strife. Rather, on the contrary, it's nice to realize that a loved one has a favorite thing that he can enthusiastically talk about. Values are, first of all, views on life, plans for the future, priorities. At the same time, if for you in the near future the main thing is a career, travel, active rest and a busy life, and your partner wants to have a family, children, equip a house and live a calm, measured life, this does not mean that you are not on your way . Remember that in love you can always find compromises.
- Intuition. No matter how trivial it may sound, but listening to the inner voice, one can understand how to define one's own person. Some people argue that women's intuition is stronger. Perhaps this is so. But men, too, should not completely ignore the inner feeling. After all, intuition is not based on physical attraction and is very often able to suggest the right answer.
Where to find love?
In books and movies, we often see scenes where peoplemeet in the most unsuitable for romance places: in the grocery store, at a reception with a dentist or on a walk with a dog. We should not rule out the possibility of such a meeting in real life, but we should not rely on it in particular. It is best to look for a soul mate in places of common interest. It can be concerts, exhibitions and museums, theaters, clubs, where they play table games, various master classes or courses in foreign languages. When meeting a person in one of these places, you, at least, will have common points of contact and will have something to talk about. At the initial stage of relations this is a good start.
In the modern world of social networkingmany find themselves a couple with the help of the Internet. Now there is an opportunity to exchange photos, to specify in the profile the data, to write about interests and hobbies and to look through the information on other users. It became much easier to find a person with whom it could be interesting in real life.
When searching for a loved one, all means andthe sources are good. Do not throw away the opportunity to meet someone who liked you, referring to a bad mood or other little things and excuses. To be afraid of failure or failure is quite normal, but if you do not overpower yourself, you can spend half your life alone. Even if previous attempts failed and the relationship did not develop, do not be disappointed, because it is quite possible that today you will meet a person who has been looking for so long.