How to get closer?
If you really like the person and you want himyou need to take certain actions. But only excessive activity can scare a person away, and you will not achieve the result. How to achieve a fragile balance - to become close to another, but not seem intrusive? Let's talk about this in more detail.
How to get closer to each other
It is quite natural that I want to become as close to my beloved as possible. But you need to act unobtrusively, otherwise it can, on the contrary, move away, and then the matter will only become complicated.
Spend more time with him
Try to spend with your loved one moretime. Try to visit the same places as he, find common topics for conversation. Perhaps you will have much in common, for example, an unusual hobby. In this case, your rapprochement will occur naturally, and your lover will not think that you are being imposed.
Ask for help and help yourself
To get along with a person, sometimes enough to ask him to help in a particular case - for example, in setting up a computer or transporting a cat to a veterinarian. Surely he will not refuse.
When all is done, you can invite him tolunch or coffee as a token of gratitude. This is a great chance to talk and get to know each other. Ask the person about his childhood, youth, tell a funny story from his life. As a result, you will have fun and become closer.
Perhaps, after your favorite will call you and invite you somewhere. Do not get lost, accept the invitation boldly, because it's an opportunity to be alone and to know a friend better.
If the person you like has aproblems, do not get lost - offer him your help. Do not hesitate, he will appreciate this gesture and will be very grateful to you. So you can not only get closer, but also become good friends, and friendship can grow into something more.
Be in a good mood
To a man reached out to you, you must always beon the positive. So you can charge your lover with a good mood, and he will unconsciously reach out to you. You should always have a joke, a funny story, a fresh anecdote. Share good news with a person, leave a grumbling for another occasion. As a result, you will become for your loved one a bright spot in his life, and he will be glad to every meeting.
Know how to listen
To become closer to each other, you need to be able to listenrights. If he has problems and you can not help, just listen, maybe you will be able to give good advice. Do not interrupt a person, you need to give him a chance to speak out. Thus, trust is born between you, you become closer and will spend more time together.
Learn his interests
You can get close to a person by learning about himinterests. For example, if he likes theater or art, it will be possible "accidentally" to meet at a premiere performance or a fashion show. But you can and be a little bolder - get tickets to the gallery or a closed view and invite your lover. In this case, you will have a common goal, and after the event you can discuss what you saw. Who knows, maybe after that the beloved himself will invite you to the theater or to the concert as a reciprocal gesture.
If your goal is to become a truly meaningful person in the life of your lover, read also our article - How to be necessary.